Portraits in a life change

My friend got diagnosed with cancer and after starting chemotherapy he wanted to shave his hair off on his own terms before it fell out. I suggested that we do it together, document the process, and take photos right after the haircut that would help him get used to his new look.

He was excited about the “ritual,” which was intended to take back the agency and control over his own life that the unexpected diagnosis had taken away. To my delight, the photos served exactly as I had hoped, immediately after they were taken – he saw how good he looked without hair, and “losing his hair to cancer” really transferred into a choice.

This session was important to all of us (me, him and Tinksu cutting the hair), and I have since tried to remember to let people know that this service is also available to customers, not just friends. Photography is always a powerful tool when facing physical changes, especially if they happen against your will.